Trouble with pairing Cell with 325xi

I have a 2004 325xi with bluetooth and I'm trying to "pair" my LG VX8100 phone to my car. I set the phone to Bluetooth but the car does not reconize it. Yes, I followed the manual by turing on the ignition to set the seek. Does not see the phone. Try http://www.bmwusa.com/owners/bluetooth/howto

Also, once I get it paired, the instruction on line say that I will need a password. The password is suppose to be with the manual but is not. Some models don't need a password.

Z3man